Subscribe to Aridni Have you ever considered that you are not good enough?

Now despite the negative sounding title, that doesn’t imply that the actual message of this article is going to be so. In fact, it’s simply cut off to abruptly. Instead of using this as a definitive statement or as it’s written above as a pointed question with apparently with some sort of hidden message, instead take it as incomplete.Key to success, unlock your future!

Right now if I opened up an operating room (all legal issues aside for the purpose of this example =P ) it would only be a matter of time before I realized, “Hey! I don’t know anything about surgery!”

It would be unethical for me to book people in and begin cutting them up without the proper training and a complete understanding of what I am doing. So from this point I have two options to complete my sentence.

Have you ever considered that you are not good enough…

Yet? – Taking this route would mean training, studying, and practice. In the example above we’re going to be doing some serious time to get through med school and becoming certified. Many times it could be something much simpler. Reading some material before a meeting, organizing your thoughts, researching some potential investments, or otherwise teaching yourself something new could be all it takes.

But someone else is? – In the business of operating on people, I am not qualified in any means. I haven’t been trained, certified, or for that matter have the slightest clue what I would be doing with that scalpel. Now what If I went out and found some young doctor who is still trying to pay off his student loans and would love to come operate at my place. I’m sure that he would do a heck of a lot better of a job operating than I would!

Of course most new companies can’t afford to hire specialists and me saying “GO HIRE DOCTORS!” isn’t really helping anybody’s cause. (aside from the doctors that is!) But I’m sure you know of someone who is better at a particular task than you are. Can you ask them for advice? Note that you’re not asking them to complete the project, but simply for their input. Of course this doesn’t always work out so well, as in the case of my operating room example! “Hey Mark, its Todd here. If I was performing an apadextrodomy and I nick the bi-lateral vein and blood is shooting everywhere, what would I do?”

As you can see there it would make sense to not get in over your head, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be ambitious and strive to make you big ideas turn into something real!

Now if you will excuse me, I have to go meet with a programmer who is better at it than I am.

This article written by Todd on 21st September 2006

6 Comments »

  1. Alex says

    guess i never really thought about that Todd. And why not? I think you’re right. We’ve either got to become better or find someone who already is better. The key is if you find someone whos better then you’ve got to be better at something else.

    September 21st, 2006 | #

  2. Todd says

    “you’ve got to be better at something else.”

    Alex, do you mean better than that one person at something else? Or do you mean you have to work to become better than them?

    Of course people will be more willing to give you something once they have recieved something. I believe that’s what you’re getting at here, correct?

    September 21st, 2006 | #

  3. Katie says

    You can’t get discouraged when you don’t excel at a particular thing. A framer can’t build a house by himself– the plumber, electrician, mason, roofer–it’s a big group effort.

    We’ve got to strive to be a master of something. Be the best darn framer in town. Don’t just be an attorney; be a tax attorney. Narrow your specialty and strengthen your focus.

    Would you say I summed up some of your thoughts, Alex?

    September 22nd, 2006 | #

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